10 Powerful Ways to Remove the Negativity From Your Life
We’ve
all experienced negativity in our lives at one point or another. We
talk to that one friend or family member that always manages to make us
feel down, even though we were in a great mood beforehand. We’ve had
that feeling of dread when we have to go somewhere negative people are
(maybe work or to a relative’s house).
The good news is that you don’t have to allow
negativity to rule your life! You can take the reins and find ways to
help eliminate negativity in your life. Check out our 10 favorite,
powerful ways that you can begin abolishing negativity from your life
TODAY!
Minimize All Toxic Relationships – If
you have someone in your life who makes you feel bad about yourself,
what you like, what you do, and what you aspire to do (and we all have
at least one person who does this), that person has a toxic relationship
with you. The best strategy is to remove this person altogether from
your life, but if you find that you can’t, then simply minimize your
time around that person and spend time nurturing healthier and happier
relationships instead.
Think Positive Thoughts – After
removing the negative people in your life, you should focus on removing
the negativity that lurks in your mind. Remember that you are the master
of your own destiny. Follow the Law of Attraction and eliminate those
pesky, negative thoughts right away. Whenever you allow yourself to
think negative things, more negative things will happen to you. Instead,
allow positive thoughts to flood your mind, and you’ll find that more
and more positive things will enter into your life. It’s that simple!
Surround Yourself With Positive People – It’s
not enough to simply think positive thoughts. You must find others who
have positive outlooks on life and are energetic and support what you
do. These people should make you feel more empowered and give you
confidence in all your endeavors. You’ll find that life becomes much
brighter when you have positive people surrounding you.
Channel Positivity In Your Body and Force Negativity Out – Physical
activity is something that we as a people in general take for granted
or see as a punishment. Meditation – be it yoga, deep breathing, alone
time, or time spent in prayer – can help us relax and clear our minds,
bringing in new energy and positive vibes. On the other hand, working
out can help us burn off the anxiety, anger, and negativity that
continue to plague us. The next time you feel negativity trying to pull
you down, go for a run, walk, or bike ride, play tennis, swim – do SOME
physical activity to help diminish the negativity.
Do What You Love, Love what You Do (and Where You Do It) – Sometimes
we may not have much of a choice in this area, especially in today’s
economy; however, working in a poisonous environment full of negative
people can really wear us down quickly. Furthermore, it’s imperative to
do the things that you thoroughly enjoy in life. Doing activities that
you love will help you feel more positive and zealous about life. If you
find that you’re not enjoying your work or if your workplace has become
too toxic, we encourage you to seek a new job, whether it’s within a
different department in your company or with a different company
altogether.
Don’t Worry About What People Might Say – Have
you ever found yourself wanting to accomplish a certain goal but hold
off doing it because you fear others could think poorly about you? Maybe
you want to publish a novel or you want to visit a different country,
but you find yourself paralyzed because you think, “What would my
mother/sister/best friend, etc. think?” Just remember, it’s YOUR life,
not theirs! You must keep in mind that it’s impossible to please
everyone and that YOUR happiness is what truly matters. So if you want
to publish that novel, go for it! Don’t let the naysayers slow you down.
Stop That Complaining – Everyone
complains every now and then about work, about friends and loved ones,
or about life in general. It’s human to do so. But keep in mind that
complaining puts us in a place to continue making excuses and being
negative. Stop immediately the next time you begin complaining. Think of
how to fix your problems, and remember to always be grateful for what
you have in your life. You’re more fortunate than many others.
Take “What If?” Out of Your Vocabulary – Anxieties
are part of our lives, but that doesn’t mean you should let them rule
yours! Fears can impair our ability to move forward or accomplish the
goals we set for ourselves. One of the easiest ways anxiety and
negativity can latch onto us is when we ask ourselves, “What if?” You
may ask yourself, “What if I get sick during the meeting? What if our
plane to Japan goes down? What if I mess up in front of everyone and
look like a fool?” Here’s a new strategy for you – every time you start
thinking “what if?”, think “So what?” instead. Don’t let negativity and
anxieties hold you back from your goals and passions!
Love Where You Live – Have you
ever longed to live somewhere else, somewhere inspirational that fills
you up with positive energy? Do you currently live in a negative
community that you dread to go home to every night after work? Not
everyone may be able to do this, but if you can, try to move to that
place that will help you stay positive. Do remember, though, that every
place has its pros and cons.
Give Back – What’s better than
giving back? Nothing, that’s what! Give back to your community. Do some
charity work, or volunteer at your church or in the local animal
shelter. You’ll find that giving of yourself helps you become a happier,
more positive person!
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